If you can’t even say what you want from life, let alone write it down, how in the world do you expect to get it? Life isn’t some grand telepathy experiment—it’s a game of clarity and action.
Three weeks ago, I started something novel, simple, something monk-like: transcribing my own custom affirmative prayer into my journal every morning during the golden 30-minute window after waking up.
This wasn’t just a nice idea—it was transformative.
Imagine flossing your mind as you do your teeth, clearing out the residue of doubt, fear, and endless ruminations about things you wish you could forget. Journaling in this state gave me profound focus on my business, my relationships, and—most unexpectedly—on letting go of baggage I’ve been carting around like a steamer trunk with a broken wheel.
The spillover effects have been staggering. A new vigor has taken hold. It’s as if the drums of my own evolution have started beating again, louder and louder, calling me forward.
I’m realizing something deep: I’m not just creating for myself anymore. I’m doing this for others—those who are stuck in a loop of "getting by," who dream of something better but don’t yet see the path.
The Compass: Finding Your True North
Take Drew, one of my clients.
On paper, he had the life most people dream of: living in the Hollywood Hills, a stunning house, great location—the works. But inside, Drew couldn’t relax. Something gnawed at him. His internal compass, the one that should’ve been pointing him toward joy and fulfillment, felt stuck—or worse, broken.
Drew believed he had to take every piece of business that came his way, even the contentious, stress-inducing kind.
"What if I turned it down and everything fell apart? What if I made a mistake? What if I lost money—or worse, became homeless?"
These doubts boiled down to a toxic and all-too-common sentiment:
I am not good enough.
But here’s the thing: when we paused and reflected on Drew’s most recent wins, those fears melted away. He wasn’t just surviving; he was excelling. His compass wasn’t broken—it just needed recalibrating.
Dream Big, Then Check Your Bearings
The first step was asking the big question: What do you want your life to look like?
This exercise is private, almost sacred. It’s not something you do every day, but when you do, it’s like pulling out your compass and rechecking your bearings. Together, Drew and I waved magic wands, drew out north stars, and dreamed up a vision so vivid it could have been storyboarded.
But dreaming isn’t enough. The next step was doing. Every week, we focused on the “One Thing” that would make everything else easier:
Some weeks, it was figuring out how to increase his rates without losing clients.
Other weeks, it was researching technologies to save time or demonstrating new tools.
And sometimes, it was cutting ties with "problem clients" to make space for projects and people he actually wanted to work with.
Navigating Challenges with Precision
At some point, Drew’s transformation hit a critical juncture: the long-prototype phase of The Family Business. This wasn’t some pie-in-the-sky fantasy—it was already taking shape.
Enter the world of 1031-exchanges: high-stakes real estate maneuvers with razor-thin timelines. For Drew, this was the ultimate test of vision meeting execution.
With his compass pointed toward his north star, he mapped out what success would look like—not just for the business, but for the life he wanted it to support.
This wasn’t about grinding harder; it was about working smarter. By clearing the mental clutter, optimizing his workflows, and maintaining relentless focus, Drew executed those exchanges with precision.
The result? A reimagined family business designed to:
Generate steady income.
Build long-term wealth.
Reflect his purpose and values.
A Life Transformed
Drew’s words on this journey speak volumes:
"Glen is more than a great life coach. He’s a real, down-to-earth person, who partnered with me to help me achieve my goals. With his help, I simplified my approach to life and was able to focus on what is truly important. I’m taking care of myself physically and mentally, and I married the woman of my dreams. At the same time, I’ve successfully increased my fees and income while cutting my working hours by a third. The results have been fantastic, with a work/life balance I could only have dreamed of a few short years ago."
This transformation wasn’t just about success—it was about redefining what success means. Drew shifted from a state of reactive hustle to intentional creation. His compass, once lost, now points true.
Write It Down. Say It Out Loud.
Every step forward starts with clarity. If you don’t know what you want, how will you recognize it when it arrives?
Take five minutes tomorrow morning to write it down—really write it down. Dream big, but don’t be afraid to dream small too.
Your "one thing" doesn’t have to be monumental or world-changing. It could be as simple as an elusive feeling you want to feel more of—peace, joy, contentment—or something deeply personal, like connecting with your grandchildren in last week's essay with Mary Jane.
It’s completely up to you. One thing is for sure: it’s not about money directly.
It’s about those moments of alignment when life feels meaningful. It’s about creating space for what truly matters and honoring what you genuinely want from life.
Dream big, and then make one small choice today that moves you closer to your north star. That is always the first step in an epic journey.
Your Next Step
For more insights and stories on personal growth and intentional living, visit my website at www.RealWildGinseng.com.
Dive deeper with articles like "Ripple Effects: The Journey of Personal Growth and Its Wake on Relationships," which explore how clarity and intention can reshape your life.
Remember, clarity is the compass that guides you to your true north.
Start your journey today. Let’s create your masterpiece together.
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